Barbara A. Skillman
- Mar 19
- 3 min read
1937 - 2026
OBITUARY:
It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of Barbara Ann Skillman, loving mother, a remarkable woman, and a dedicated professional. Barbara’s courageous 4-year battle with Dementia/Alzheimer’s ended on February 9, 2026, as she passed away peacefully at the age of 88.
Our mother, Barbara, a widow at the age of 45, was filled with strength and determination, as she had to fill many roles after the early passing of her husband, Robert. We were blessed to have her as the head of our family, and she lived her life with faith, grace & gratitude, despite having to walk alone for so many years. She was a survivor, as she lived bravely and loved fiercely, always letting her family know how much she loved them.
She met Robert G. Skillman, Jr. and was married on April 13, 1957, and together they went on to have 2 children. Barbara was predeceased by her husband Robert G. Skillman, Jr. and her parents Robert & Elvira Muller. She is survived by her children, Bob Skillman, III (wife, Jackie), and Lynn Braban (partner, Tony DeRosa). Barbara’s legacy will live on as she is survived by 8 grandchildren, some by blood and some by love, their spouses & partners, 5 great-granddaughters, and 1 great-grandson. Her nurturing spirit, unwavering support, and boundless love will forever live on in the hearts of her children.
Barbara is also survived by her siblings, Ruth Boselli (husband Patsy – deceased), Robert Muller (wife, Barbara), & Donald Muller (wife, Roxann).
As a smart accomplished woman, graduating from Grace Dodge Vocational High School, just 1 month after she turned 16, Barbara’s passion for math and organization paved the way into a secretarial position at Starflite Uniforms, and continued throughout her career as Office Manager / Head of Financial Affairs for many years. She remained with her core group of colleagues through changes in company ownership & name, finally retiring from Uniform Ideas/Cintas. Barbara truly had an incredible work ethic, simply loved her job, and thrived on being part of a company. To no one’s surprise, after a short period at home, to keep active and busy, took a part-time job in a local company in the accounting department where she remained into her mid 70’s
Barbara was a woman of faith and church was a central part of her life. For many years, was an integral part of Redeemer Evangelical Lutheran Church in the Bronx, her roles included being a Youth Group Chaperone, a Sunday School teacher, member of Church Council, and anywhere else a helping hand was needed. Her memory will be forever cherished, and she will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
A Memorial Service to celebrate Barbara's Life will be held on April 11, 2026 at Redeemer Evangelical Lutheran Church; 4360 Rev. Theodore Wittrock Crossing, (Boyd Avenue), Bronx, NY 10466. Visiting hours will begin at 12:30 pm, followed by a Memorial Church Service at 2:00. A coffee & dessert fellowship will be held immediately following church in the same location. Barbara will be buried in a small private funeral on Monday, April 13th at Woodlawn Cemetery, Bronx, NY.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Redeemer Lutheran Church Youth Group, a cause close to Barbara's heart.
Arrangements were entrusted to the care of DELEHANTY FUNERAL HOME, 64 East Main Street, Wappingers Falls, New York. To offer a message of condolence or share a fond memory, please visit: www.DelehantyFuneral.com
VISITING HOURS:
Saturday, April 11, 2026
12:30 PM
Redeemer Evangelical Lutheran Church
4360 Rev. Theodore Wittrock Crossing (Boyd Avenue); Bronx, NY 10466
MEMORIAL SERVICE:
Saturday, April 11, 2026
2:00 PM
Redeemer Evangelical Lutheran Church
4360 Rev. Theodore Wittrock Crossing (Boyd Avenue); Bronx, NY 10466
INTERMENT:
Monday, April 13, 2026
Woodlawn Cemetery 4199 Webster Avenue, Bronx, NY 10470
MEMORIAL DONATIONS:
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Redeemer Lutheran Church Youth Group, 4360 Rev. Theodore Wittrock Crossing (Boyd Avenue); Bronx, NY 10466; a cause close to Barbara’s heart.
My mother-in-law was one of a kind. She welcomed me, our children and our nephew into her heart without hesitation. I am one of the lucky ones to have had a mother-in-law who I loved and adored. We laughed so hard at times, it was a race for the bathroom! She will be sorely missed by everyone who knew her. Rest in Peace Mom.
Grandma, you are and forever will be my best friend. I cherish all the time we spent together. Every weekend I slept at your house, going to Sunday school and church with you every Sunday, the hot summers walking across the street to the park when they turned the sprinklers on, going bowling with you and gram. We had the best time together. I couldn't ask for a better Grandma. I love and miss you more the words can ever express. Give grandpa skillman a big hug and kiss for me. Xoxo till we meet again.
Rest in peace Barbara. You will be missed. Always enjoyed spending time with you at Bob and Jackie's for dinners and bbq's. You were always happy and greated everyone with that beautiful smile. You would make me laugh when you always told me, " you're lucky you married the best Flocco brother, I always favored John more!". Although you're no longer here, your memory will continue to live on. Rest easy and continue to watch over your loving family.
RIP Aunt BABS YOU WERE THE GREATEST!!!!
Aunt Babs you were always one of my favorite people. I can't remember a time when I saw you without a smile. Although we didn't see each other often I did enjoy our conversations. RIP