Bobbie L. Zappala

1986 - 2026

OBITUARY:

Bobbie L. Zappala, a longtime resident of Beacon and Fishkill, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 5, 2026, at the age of 39, after a long and courageous battle with cancer. She was born on August 9, 1986, in Mount Kisco, New York, the daughter of John Zappala and Helen Wilke, both of whom survive her.

Bobbie was a devoted daughter, mother, sister, and friend. In addition to her parents, she is survived by her two children, X-Havier and Ysabella, who were her entire world, as well as their father, Javier Gonzalez, with whom she shared 17 years. She is also survived by her sister, Theresa (Curtis) Jackson; her nieces, Kataryna and Elliana; and many loving aunts, uncles, and cousins, including her Uncle Joseph, Uncle Gary, and Aunt Mary. She also leaves behind her loyal dog, Chance, who rarely left her side and was a constant source of comfort throughout her journey.

Bobbie had a spirit that was impossible to ignore. She was strong-willed, stubborn, and wonderfully sassy, with a sense of humor that could brighten even the darkest day. She loved fiercely and unconditionally, always putting others before herself. Her home—and her heart—were always open to others. Over the years, she became a second mother to many, earning the affectionate title of “Mama Bobbie” from the countless children she welcomed, supported, and loved as her own.

Bobbie began her Scouting journey in 2013 as a dedicated leader for X-Havier’s Cub Scout Pack and later supported Ysabella as well. She mentored many young Scouts, guiding them in achieving the Arrow of Light, the highest honor in Cub Scouting. In 2019, she proudly founded Troop 41G, the area’s first girls’ BSA troop, and served as Scoutmaster until her retirement in 2023, helping grow the troop and shape its foundation. Her commitment to Scouting was recognized with her induction into the Order of the Arrow in 2020. Bobbie was especially proud of her children, celebrating X-Havier’s achievement of Eagle Scout and Ysabella becoming the troop’s first Star Scout.

Despite the challenges she faced over the past year, Bobbie showed incredible resilience and bravery. She faced each day with determination, humor, and an unwavering love for her family. Her strength was an inspiration to all who knew her.

Her family will receive friends on Saturday, April 11, 2026, from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM at Delehanty Funeral Home, 64 East Main Street, Wappingers Falls, New York, where a brief service of remembrance will be held at 11:00 AM. Interment will follow at Fairview Cemetery, 375 Washington Avenue, Beacon, New York.

In keeping with Bobbie’s love for flowers, the family kindly encourages floral donations.

To offer a message of condolences or share a fond memory, please visit: www.DelehantyFuneral.com

VISITATION:

Saturday, April 11 9:00 - 11:00 AM

Delehanty Funeral Home 64 East Main Street, Wappingers Falls, NY

SERVICE OF REMEMBRANCE:

Saturday, April 11 11:00 AM Delehanty Funeral Home 64 East Main Street, Wappingers Falls, NY

GRAVESIDE PRAYER SERVICE:

Saturday, April 11

12:30 PM

Fairview Cemetery 375 Washington Avenue, Beacon, NY