Dr. David V. DiMarco
Updated: Aug 22
1955 - 2026
OBITUARY:
Dr. David V. DiMarco, a life-long resident of Wappingers Falls, NY, died suddenly at his home on August 19, 2026 at the age of 71. He was born in Poughkeepsie, NY on February 23, 1955, son of the late Henry A. & Dolores L. DiMarco. He attended St. Mary’s School in Wappingers Falls and graduated from Our Lady of Lourdes High School in Poughkeepsie, class of 1973. He later went on to Union College and the University of Padua in Italy, ultimately graduating from Mount Sinai School of Medicine in 1981.
David worked as an orthopedic surgeon for almost 40 years and was a founding partner of Orthopedic Associates of Dutchess County. After he retired from OADC in 2020, he came out of retirement to treat the Veterans at Castle Point. He was happiest caring for his patients - who called him “Doc” - while his colleagues called him “DVD.” He loved his work.
When he was not treating patients, he was lifting weights, stalking the BMW lot for the newest M5, and adding to his endless tie collection. He also enjoyed the simple pleasures like anchovies and snacking on peanut M&Ms. His favorite activity was spending time with his family, listening and laughing to the same stories repeatedly.
On October 9, 1983 in Orange, NJ, he married the love of his life, Shari M. Gilbert, who survives him at home. Along with his beloved wife, David is survived by his three daughters: Jaimee (Brian), Alexa (Zachary), and Erika; though we can’t forget about his granddog, ‘Shay.’ He is also survived by his four brothers, whom he affectionately referred to as Hank (#I), Larry (#3), Robert (#4), and Gerry (#5), and a host of nieces, nephews, friends & colleagues. He leaves behind a legacy of laughter, love and unmatched style. Rest Easy – you’ve earned the victory lap.
His Family will receive Friends on Saturday, August 22 from 3:00 -7:00 pm at the DELEHANTY FUNERAL HOME, 64 E. Main St., Wappingers Falls, NY; where a Prayer Service and Remembrance will be offered at 7:00 pm. Interment will be private at the convenience of his family.
In lieu of flowers, the family wishes for memorial donation to be made to either VA Hudson Valley HCS – Castle Point Campus, 41 Castle Point Rd., Wappingers Falls, NY 12590 or the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 840692 Dallas, TX 75284. To offer a message of condolence or share a fond memory of David, please visit: www.DelehantyFuneral.com
VISITATION:
Saturday, August 22 3:00 - 7:00 PM
Delehanty Funeral Home 64 East Main Street, Wappingers Falls, NY
PRAYER & REMEMBERANCE SERVICE:
Saturday, August 22 7:00 PM Delehanty Funeral Home 64 East Main Street, Wappingers Falls, NY
MEMORIAL DONATIONS:
In lieu of flowers the family wishes for memorial donation to be made to either
VA Hudson Valley HCS – Castle Point Campus
41 Castle Point Rd., Wappingers Falls, NY 12590
American Heart Association
P.O. Box 840692 Dallas, TX 75284
I met Dave my very first day of college as were just rooms apart in our freshman dorm floor and he quickly became one of my first close friends at Union. A great guy with an infectious quirky laugh, smart, caring and athletic to boot. My lasting image of Dave is him in a maroon and white striped rugby shirt with grass stained knee pads. Appropriate that he would go on to become such a prominent orthopedist saving other people’s knees along with other joints! I visited him after college when he studied in Padua but then we lost touch for far too long. I was fortunate to have reconnected with him just a couple years ago over lunch …
I'm am truly saddened to hear of Dr. D's passing. He took care of my dad and then me. He was a really nice man and a good Dr. My deepest heartfelt condolences go out to the entire family. May he rest in peace.
DVD, my birthday twin! I had the honor of working with Dr. DiMarco at OADC for a handful of years. He was such a big teddy bear, always had a smile on his face, had a different tie on every day of the week. Dr. DiMarco you will truly be missed. I will cherish the fun memories we had. I will pray for your family to get through this difficult time. RIP big guy, fly high with the angels
I knew David as a dance dad. He was at every recital, his girls dance competitions, and even joined several of the parents' competition dances ~ "It's Raining Men", "Who Let the Dogs Out", and I think he was even an angel in "Sister Act". We know he's an angel now because Shari woke up at 4am to what she thought was the sound of a bell. "Every time a bell rings an angel gets his wings" (It's a Wonderful Life movie 1946). Anyone who knew him would have no doubt. Fly high Dave and keep an eye on us.
Waiting for an urgent tax document in the mail used to keep me on edge all morning. Checking Speed Post Tracking gave me real updates on the carrier's whereabouts, letting me manage my day efficiently while expecting the parcel.